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Wednesday, April 20, 2011

Repost: Modern Etiquette

The fact that there is an etiquette guide to talking about your wedding on Facebook is definitely a sign of our times...


In addition to the eight tips posted on allfacebook.com, I'll add a few more...


8 Facebook Wedding Etiquette Tips


9. Don't post all the pictures from your photographer without their permission. In most cases, this is actually a violation of copyright law. Ask your photographer for some low-res watermarked files you can use.  If you talk to them, there is usually a way it can work where the photographer gets some publicity, and your friends get to see the images! You can also post the snapshots your friends and family have taken (with their permission-of course!) 


10. On Facebook as well as other places it's good to remember the advice "Praise in public, criticize in private." If you care about your relationships and your community, it's always better to take up any problems in private. With your professionals, they'll be more likely to try to fix the problem if you haven't already trashed their reputation. Of course, public praise is always nice- good karma for everyone!


11. I'd add an addendum to "Stay off line during nuptials". I think it would be fine to post "We did it!" or something equally short and to the point after the ceremony. But really, on the day of your wedding and even through your honeymoon- your focus should be on the people/person you're with- the rest of us can wait.


Remember, Facebook, Twitter and whatever is next down the pike are great tools for keeping in touch with your community.  These tools, however, are not a substitute for community.

Monday, March 7, 2011

2011's Hottest Sustainable Wedding Trends


If you're at all interested in having a sustainable wedding (and who isn't?), this is a great article from RecycledBride where brides buy and sell gently used wedding dresses.

Fire and Ice by Planned Spontaneity
Many of my clients have helped set these trends! How are you creating a sustainable celebration? Are you using any of these ideas? Do you have other ideas you're using? Please share your ideas in the comment section at the bottom of this blog. At Planned Spontaneity, we specialize in creating celebrations that fit with your personal values. We've used many of these ideas and more to produce beautiful, fun, sustainable celebrations.

As public awareness grows about sustainability, the wedding market is seeing dramatic shifts in the values and purchasing habits of brides, grooms, and their guests. Excessive spending and wasteful extravagance are out, while eco-friendly choices like paperless invitations, cocktail-length wedding dresses, and locally sourced menus and gifts are in. Weddings in 2011 are all about simple elegance, creative DIY projects, and attire and decorations that can be used again after the big day.
"A sustainable wedding is one that includes elements which have a positive social and environmental impact. It's incredibly exciting to be at the forefront of sustainable wedding trends and to observe how couples all over the world are making beautiful, ethical choices for their celebrations," says Tracy DiNunzio, founder and CEO of Recycled Bride. "This year's sustainable wedding trends are going mainstream, with more couples than ever incorporating eco-friendly elements into their weddings."

Eleven Sustainable Wedding Trends for 2011
Moonstone Engagement Ring
Turtle Love Committee
1. Diamonds are no longer a girl's best friend: Inspired by the sapphire ring that Prince William gave to Kate Middleton, alternative gemstones are all the rage for engagements in 2011. Brides will express their individual style -- and avoid conflict diamonds -- with rings made of colored stones like sapphires, emeralds, and rubies, and sparkly diamond alternatives like moissonite and synthetic diamonds.

2. Chalkboard chic: Stylish slate signs will take the place of paper wedding programs, seating cards, and menus. Chalkboard signs can be made to look elegant and fancy or sweet and rustic, and can be created inexpensively at home using scavenged picture frames, chalkboard paint, and a little creativity. Reducing paper waste at your wedding never looked so stylish!

Nutshell Catering
3. Weddings go local: Farmer's market menus and locally sourced favors and gifts are hip as can be this year. By doing their wedding shopping locally, couples minimize their carbon footprint, support their local economy, and delight guests with unique details they won't find elsewhere. This trend caught fire after Chelsea Clinton's locally lovely wedding in Rhinebeck, New York, and will continue well into 2011.

4. The "staycation-moon": The popular staycation trend meets the honeymoon as couples skip the expense and carbon footprint associated with honeymoon travel in favor of romantic hometown adventures. Picture a week of museum visits, local theater and sporting events, park picnics, bucket-list adventures, and romantic dining -- no luggage required!
5. Intimate weddings: Weddings with small guest lists create less waste, offer more warmth, and give couples tons of flexibility when choosing a location. Intimate wedding celebrations range from elegant multi-course dinners in hotel penthouses to backyard barbecues featuring local bands and brews.

6. Cocktail wedding dresses: Short wedding dresses are all the rage, and just about every major bridal designer has debuted a knee-length collection for 2011. A cocktail-length dress can be worn again, and many are just as formal and elegant as a long gown. Look for tons of short and sweet styles for sale on Recycled Bride right now.

7. Paperless Invitations: Electronic wedding communication is easier and prettier than ever, with companies like Glo offering stunning, interactive online save-the-dates, reply cards, invitations, and more. E-mail invites are less expensive than paper and help to reduce wedding waste.
Tea Length Wedding Dress
by Recycled Bride  

8. Greener Gifting: Registries have gone green, with tons of new options for brides and grooms who want to receive ethically-made gifts and support the sustainable economy. Two of our faves are the Green Bride Guide Shop and The Knot's Gift Registry 360, which lets couples create one centralized registry with products from any online retailer they choose. And green donation gifts, like Bluebell Giving Cards, will be popular as both wedding presents and guest favors.

9. Face Forward: Long veils are sitting on the sidelines this year, as brides forgo them in favor of birdcage styles and unique hair accessories that can be worn again. Expect to see 2011's brides in headbands, vintage hair clips, flowers, and chic tiaras.

10. Flexitarian Feasts: Another trend inspired by Chelsea Clinton's veggie-conscious wedding is reducing the amount of meat on the menu. This year, more couples will offer vegetable- and grain-based meal options for their guests in an effort to save money and save the Earth.
 
11. Wedding Recycling: More brides, grooms, bridesmaids and guests than ever are shopping and selling on sites like RecycledBride.com. Smart users enjoy the financial, environmental, and social benefits of wedding recycling, and discover the joy of sharing, saving, and passing on treasured wedding items to other happy couples.
About Recycled Bride:
RecycledBride.com is the world's largest wedding marketplace. Members buy and sell everything from designer wedding gowns to reception decorations, bridesmaids dresses, shoes, and wedding gifts. Reselling new and gently used wedding items on Recycled Bride lets users minimize their carbon footprint and maximize their budgets. Recycled Bride is owned byRecycled Media, Inc. and was founded in 2009 by Tracy DiNunzio in Santa Monica, California. An eco-conscious business, Recycled Bride donates a portion of its advertising revenue to Global Green USA.

Thursday, December 16, 2010

Wedding Entertainment 101

Photo provided courtesy of Angelic Angles
I wanted to write a quick "Wedding Entertainment 101" article. Unfortunately, even a "simple" list of entertainment options quickly became waaay too unwieldy for a little introduction article. After several attempts I realized that this sort of "intro has been done by others. Why reinvent the wheel? What I want to do is write about some specific details. So, by way of Wedding Entertainment 101, I'd like to refer you to a good comprehensive article written by Lori Voth at Associated Content. Wedding Event Planning: Entertainment Options. It's got a good description of the basics of Live Music vs. DJ vs. DIY. The Knot also has a good article, Reception Music: Getting Started.
Greek Wedding Dance!

Here are some topics you can look forward to here!
• Incorporating your heritage or ethnicity into your wedding entertainment
• Pros and cons of DIY vs. hiring professionals
”Dance Party” style music selections — the good, the bad … you know

The Harmonious Wail
Of course, with my contra-dance background, I’m looking forward to introducing many of you to the option of hiring a caller or folk-dance instructor!
The Last Gaspe

Finally, I’m in the process of getting interviews lined up and hope to introduce you to some fabulous local entertainers to consider for your celebration!

Monday, December 13, 2010

Repost: Offbeat Bride | The dowry tradition and how it relates to today's bride

If you're wondering about financing your wedding, check out this lively debate over at Offbeat Bride, and be sure to read the comments!  The focus is on whether or not the brides parents should pay for the wedding, and all that it implies..
 Offbeat Bride | The dowry tradition and how it relates to today's bride
Before I let you go, here's my own take on the subject...
It's lovely when parents are willing and able to help finance a wedding. When a bridal couple accepts financial help, it should be in a posture of gratitude, not with an air of entitlement. Financial help should also be accepted with a clear understanding of what the expectations are.


Your wedding should fit within the framework of your your personal values. Here are some considerations that may effect how you allocate your resources.
• You may highly value staying out of debt
Photo courtesy of Sharp Exposure Photography
• One of your values might be your sense of community which might lead to a larger guest list (and potentially greater expense).  
• Your heritage and traditions might be an aspect of your wedding that brings you the most joy.
• You might also value having a green wedding or supporting locally owned businesses!  
• Having a fair-trade celebration might be very important to you.
You might have a really different set of sensibilities than your parents, and it will be important to communicate your plans, hopes and desires with them before they share financial stake in your wedding celebration.  The last thing you want before your wedding is conflict over how much input your parents have after they've bankrolled your wedding!


I recognize that money can be one of the more difficult topics to discuss.  We tend to have a lot of emotion wrapped up in the meaning of how we choose to spend or not spend our money. If the topic is too daunting to discuss, consider talking it over with your fiance, or getting help from your officiant, pre-marital counselor or life coach, whoever you can depend on to help you move forward with integrity and clarity


One final thought: Did you know that weddings tend to run significantly over budget?!? I have heard weddings generally run 30% over budget, but I'm having trouble verifying the number... A professional wedding planner can help you stay within your budget and prioritize what's important to you.  Contact Planned Spontaneity.  I can help you celebrate in a way that reflects your style and personal values within your budget.

Friday, December 3, 2010

Repost: HEAD OVER HEELS: PRIORITIZING YOUR BUDGET

I love this article! Nicole Zenner is a friend and a member of the Association of Bridal Consultants.  She offers some great information about keeping within your budget, and also describes how wedding planners can help you stay within your budget!  I can add that I regularly plan weddings with budgets between $10,000 and $20,000, and I always include my services within the budget.  Click below to read Nicole's article!  

- Home - HEAD OVER HEELS: PRIORITIZING YOUR BUDGET

Sunday, October 10, 2010

How To Be a Great GWC :: {guest with camera} :: WI Wedding Photography � Red Gecko Studio

I like for my Planned Spontaneity blog to be helpful and informative, and sometimes, that helpful, informative material is written by another blogger! If you're a follower of this blog, you may have already read about Mandie Haberman and Red Gecko Studio. At any rate, here's a great article Mandie wrote on being a "GWC", or Guest with a Camera at a Wedding. 

How To Be a Great GWC :: {guest with camera} :: WI Wedding Photography � Red Gecko Studio

Tuesday, May 11, 2010

Room for Sentiments: Blank RSVPs — Always A Blogsmaid Repost

I love this personal touch for RSVPs! It's a perfect way to invite your guests to communicate with you! I don't know how it would work if you needed to collect meal selections, perhaps the bride would talk to people to find out their selections... I would love to hear what you think of this!

Room for Sentiments: Blank RSVPs — Always A Blogsmaid

Wednesday, April 28, 2010

Wedding Traditions and beliefs-Repost: Marriage Folklore and Superstitions

There are a ton of traditions surrounding weddings. Here are a few lesser known facts that I find interesting. 


• The opulent white wedding gown that is worn only once started with Hollywood-influenced weddings in the 1940's.
• The diamond engagement ring is a result of the De Beers ad campaign- "A Diamond is Forever". 
• The tiered wedding cake, however, is a descendent of a very old tradition!  Originally, the guests brought small cakes and put them in a pile at the wedding! This community-based custom evolved into the tiered wedding cake.  More recently, we've seen a departure from tiered cakes to more sculpted cakes!  A far cry from the heap-o-cake baked by everyone in town!


Familiarity with traditions and their histories can help create a more meaningful  celebration that resonates with your values.  I'm not saying you should or shouldn't follow any specific wedding custom. I am saying that if you are familiar with the origins of the traditions you choose to incorporate, they impart meaning that will personalize your celebration and make it even more memorable. 

Here's a list of some other wedding superstitions and beliefs for you to peruse. Enjoy!

Marriage Folklore and Superstitions: Explore Lesser Known Wedding Beliefs

Tuesday, April 6, 2010

Guest blog by celebration specialist Marilee Karamanski | Cha Cha Tea

Guest blog by celebration specialist Marilee Karamanski | Cha Cha Tea


I recently got to sit with Maleah Moskoff of Cha Cha Tea and discuss the juxtaposition of our two businesses, and of course… what makes a great tea party! 

Usually, when you make a lovely cup of tea for yourself or yourself and a friend, it’s all about the sitting and relaxing! Tea does not have to be “fussy”, it just is.

Occasionally, however, one wants more flair! Rather than a quiet cup of tea, you’re looking for a tea party- with emphasis on the “party”. I have some suggestions for three different tea party themes! Having a theme for your gathering will give your guests a much more memorable experience if it’s done well.  You can invite your guests to share more of an experience with you.  It’s a little like stepping into a work of art or into a beautiful story. Entice your guests through all their senses.  Below, I’ll offer some elements for hosting three distinct parties. You’ll get some décor ideas, menus and of course suggestions for the perfect tea to complement each theme!

1.  Elegant Garden Tea Party
This is an understated elegant affair.  Inspired by the traditional Afternoon Tea in the British tradition.
Start with the anticipation and the tactile pleasure of Inviting your guests using floral or doily Stationery. Before they arrive, set the stage. Pull out the crocheted tablecloth.  If you don’t have one, a floral print or a pastel solid that coordinates with your tea set will be perfect.  Play ballet music or Chopin on your CD Player.  Arrange your best garden flowers or market flowers in a more natural/ loose arrangement. This is your opportunity to use your grandmother’s tea set, or that great china tea set you got fort your wedding.

Menu: Choose from some traditional afternoon tea selections.  I always like to combine sweets and savories. Here are some suggestions.  Tea Sandwiches, very small savory sandwiches ranging in flavor from cucumber to sardine, Scones, or Tea Cakes, which may include most any pastry.

Tea
Earl Gray is wonderful and elegant, or Cha Cha's Breakfast. Malty with notes of chocolate and raisin are both perfect complements for our elegant garden tea party!

2. Asian Tea Party
Invite people with lovely cards printed with Japanese artwork or images of the Japanese tea set.   Set the stage using any of the following: rice paper screens, hanging lanterns, origami or parasols. Decorate your table with a small bonsai tree or lucky bamboo.  Use a lovely Japanese tea pot with handle less cups on a Low table with cushions If you don’t happen to own a traditional low table, you can create one by using a folded up card table or other appropriate size boards put up on blocks. Be sure to give your guests comfortable cushions to sit on!

Menu: Choose an assortment of dim-sum type delicacies like the following: Gyōza  are a very popular dish in Japan. They can be served boiled as pot stickers or even deep-fried. Spring Rolls are like lovely fresh egg rolls- usually served cold or room temperature. Edamame, steamed baby soybeans have a lovely nutty flavor.  Mochi Is a fun dessert.  You can find mochi ice cream in some grocery stores, but click the picture for some recipes!
Tea
Ma-cha is elegant and unique.
Bancha is a green tea that is organic, herbacious, spring like and affordable
My personal favorite tea is Pu-erh

3. Mad Tea Party

This one’s inspired by the mad hatter’s un-birthday tea party in Wonderland.  It’s bright and playful!  Decorations are key here.  The bolder the better.  Use bright colors and giant flowers for the most impact.  Use an image from Alice or a deck of playing cards on your invitations.  Before guests arrive, put on fun wonderland inspired music.  Set the stage with the brightest tablecloth you can find!  A bright solid like fuchsia, lime or turquoise would be great!  If you’ve got a crazy teapot, first make sure it’s food safe by modern standards before you use it.  If you’re not sure, use it in your centerpiece as décor!  After your repast, invite your guests for a game of croquet!

Menu: Create a feast for the eye as well as the tongue with a selection of locally made cupcakes. Make tea sandwiches in the shapes of clubs, hearts, spades and diamonds.  For a whimsical effect add, “eat me” and “drink me” tags to your food and drink!

Tea:
Choose a fun tea like Cha-Cha’s Vanilla Coconut or Red Rooibos.

Once you’ve chosen your theme and planned your party, the most important thing is to remember to relax.  If it’s not done 30 minutes before your guests are due to arrive, let it go.  Your guests will have a lovely time if you are relaxed and you remember to enjoy the people you’ve invited to your table.  If you’d like help pulling it all together, Planned Spontaneity can help!

Sunday, March 28, 2010

Repost: VivaTerra Newsletter - Eco Wedding

I would love to help you find eco-friendly resources for your Wisconsin Wedding or celebration!
Read this article for some really great tips and inspiration for going green! 


Thanks Maleah for sending this to me!

VivaTerra Newsletter - Eco Wedding





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March 2010

Green Weddings
Celebrate the big day eco style.
Eco tips
Top 20 resources for planning a green wedding.
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Creating a green wedding is a state of mind. I discovered this first hand while planning a September wedding with my daughter and her fiancé last year. Two committed environmentalists, they’ve put their shovels to work creating an organic farm in Brazil, they’ve hiked and surfed all over the world, and practice conscious consumption. Like most of you, my family doesn’t live off the grid, but we try our best to reduce our impact on the earth whenever possible. We realized as we prepared for her wedding that every decision along the path to the aisle became an opportunity to make a greener choice.

Veni, vidi, venue. Finding a venue for the wedding and reception can be the single most important decision (aside from choosing each other) that the bride and groom make for their green wedding. It sets the tone for the entire celebration. While hiking near the top of a local mountain, my daughter and her fiancé came upon a bowled amphitheater with stone tiers set in the midst of a redwood forest. This was the ideal setting for their celebration. Any outdoor space that personally resonates for the couple in some way is a wonderful choice. As always, the natural world becomes the most inspirational event planner; a beach, a meadow, or a even a backyard garden minimizes the need for costly, disposable decorations. The pure beauty of those surroundings outshines any amount of elaborate floral arrangements and ribbonery. Transportation to the site is another way to go green. In our case, we shuttled the guests in mini-buses to the mountain top to help preserve the pristine surroundings. Many limousine & bus companies are now offering bio-diesel options.

Something old, something new…Diamonds used to be a girl’s best friend, and a little bling to seal the deal is still popular. Yet, how much more meaningful is it to “re-engage” with a family heirloom that sparkles with memories and history. I’m currently wearing my mother-in-law’s engagement stone set into recycled gold. When my daughter said “yes”, she was presented with her future grandmother’s European set diamond from the 1930’s. If a family gem isn’t available, jewelers offer a wide choice of vintage rings and responsibly sourced gems that make a personal statement.
The same is true for wedding gowns. An altered gown or veil from a family member or a vintage gown with exquisite detailing is another way to have an eco-nomical wedding day. If only a new gown will do, it’s important to make an ethical choice about who is making it. Many off-the-rack gowns are manufactured overseas in sweatshop conditions. It’s fair to ask about the origin of a gown before making a purchase.

Eat, drink and be wary. The food and drink served at a wedding also impacts the wallet and the earth. As the demand for organic food everywhere increases, more and more caterers are responding without increasing prices per guest. Letting everyone know the source of the food will heighten awareness for so many others. From the party favors to gifting the bride and groom, there are many ways to give green. Rather than an easily discarded trinket, think about making a donation or planting a tree in the guests name as we did. To make the gift even more meaningful, green wedding registries are an alternative that include a wide range of beautiful and functional sustainable products and furnishings.
From the invitation (think paperless or recycled paper) to the honeymoon (local escapes or eco tourism) creating a green wedding is the best way to ensure a memorable day that honors a long life together for the bride and groom as well as the earth.
Bonnie Trust Dahan
Founding Partner

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In two eco-chic years at EcoSalon, we've brought you plenty of tips for green weddings. Planning your own nuptials, or helping a friend? Don't miss these articles:
20 Best Online Resources for Planning an Eco Wedding: The essential guide for any eco-friendly wedding celebration.
9 Eco Wedding Tips: Read up on green celebrity and eco consultant Victoria Everman's best tips for a green event.
My Green Wedding: A heart-warming and informative story of one woman's experience greening her big day.
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